Let It Be

Why people are never able just to let go? I am; when I close a door, I'm used to close it once and forever, I do not keep going on reopen it.
I know, memories hurt and die hard as well as old habits, but I think sometimes a memory is just a memory and must remain just that, with no more present nor future, just a past.
I think when something finishes is because it wasn't meant to be but only to have an end. "We're so 'over' we need a new word for 'over'", Carry once said on a "Sex and The City" episode; she's right: some things, some relationships are just magnets to catastrophes and nothing else and it's better for everyone to hurriedly cut them down.
Why we should keep going on in phoniness, with no feelings at all? Is it just because we are so cowardly afraid to face "the tragic truth", to accept changes and assimilate the fact that from today that present-thing will just belong to the past? I rather learn how to manage the hardness of remember with no pain than live in a habit just because of a pathetic inertia.
And I would give anything to avoid the embarrassment of having to explain this to someone while he's acting, towards you, right the opposite.
Let it go, take it easy...if something in life doesn't go on naturally but just if there's someone who is forcing it everyday, it is just not meant to be, get over it, resign yourself to that. This is not life, it is to go against its own natural course, to uselessly fight against our destinies.
I don't want, nor like, to live like this. I want to badly, strongly, believe in things, in relationships that don't need for you to check them every second to go in the right way; I don't want to have to always join something with glue, I don't want to live on things by an unstable balance.
"Love means never having to say you're sorry."
C'est la vie.
(...and, in that case, Facebook is really the worst pain in the ass ever.)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qskyTSFw4yE