Sense and sensibility.
As women, is it true that we are always led by sensibility? Personally, I do not: my mind leads me more than my heart does. But, even more than that, I'm wondering if, as women, we are really as perspicacious as everybody maintains, if we are really able to understand in its right way a feeling, a look, a different way that today someone has had to talk to us. Are we those special creatures, speaking about that, indeed? This writing doesn't want to be a manifest to the presumed superiority of female sex at all; I just want to make clarity on propose because since I was born I've always been said how lucky I am to be a woman because of our famous, precious and unique sixth sense. But I'm not so bad sure about that. Or, maybe, just every woman's got it but me.
It is just a legend the unbelievable woman radar or it truly exists? There's a song, in Italy, which says that women always know it and always know it inevitably before others. Once I wouldn't have had any doubts answering how all of this is just a great bullshit. But now, now is different; now I'm not that sure anymore about my old firm beliefs.
Maybe because I finally made it up with myself and the fact that I'm a woman, not a man; maybe because I finally gotten that there's no shame in that, because men's world is not always as brighting as it seems. Maybe because I used to be the "lady who's sure all that glitters is gold" and now I'm not her anymore; maybe because I understood that there's no sense in fighting your gender to be closer to the other, because as women we have lots of companions to be ashamed of, who daily destroy our name, as exactly as men's got their troubles too in that sense.
It's not about being a woman or being a man, it's just about who we are, as people, as individuals, not as woman or man. Yesterday I could not stood women who thought to be better than men, now I could not stand men who feels better than you just because you're not "one of them" either.
There are special women as there are special men, there are ugly woman as there are ugly men, because it's just a matter of person, of human being, because it's not about guys or dolls.
Maybe it's all about what I said before: sense and sensibility. We are not leading more by mind or more by heart on the base of our sex; it's just about our attitude and features.
What I know is that in this few lines I've repeated the word "maybe" too many times. So what do you think, are women more sensitive than men by default or it is just another urban legend?
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
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